I expect that upon taking my sperm, I am giving up my own right to play an active role in the child’s life. That includes future custody, visitations, and financial support. My name will not be listed on the birth certificate. Either it will remain blank or it will list the present father figure in the child’s life if there is one.
While I am open to possible future contact, I am not initialing it and would only consider it if the donor recipient has requested it. Upon Conception and birth, I am expecting no contact with either parent(s) or child unless otherwise by mutual agreement. Previous meetings, emails, other communications are to remain strictly private and confidential between us. Any future photographs I send, any emails messages, or other communications sent are to be deleted either after conception or after birth with no stored copies. If I am not a suitable match, I still request that my photographs, emails, etc are to be deleted. All of this done to maintain my privacy and avoid any future contact. The less specific identifiable information (like names, address) with the we share, the less likely I expect there to be future problems.
This requires some trust. I hope my requests are honoured.